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What It’s Like Being A Single Mother On Mother’s Day.

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First off; being a mother is the most challenging, emotional, painful, happiest, and rewarding job anyone could ever do! There is absolutely nothing in the World like the job of a mother, and for a single mother, it’s all of that times two.

Twice the pain, twice the challenge, twice the emotion, but it’s also twice the happiness, twice the love, and twice the reward too. At the end of the day Single mothers really are doing a job that was meant to be done by two.

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Do I say this to take away from the significance of moms living in a two parent household? Absolutely Not, because I’ve been there too.

There are some women in two parent households who take the bulk of the responsibility of the parenting and the dad does absolute shit, doesn’t do anything, doesn’t help with anything, and honestly feels that he’s not supposed to.

These women I feel sorry for, because there’s absolutely nothing worse than being a mother and having to take care of your own children plus someone else’s grown one.

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I know her. because I was her. In a way, the death of my relationship freed up some areas of responsibility, while dropping more pressure on others.

As a single mother the sole responsibility falls on you, and the burden becomes twice as heavy when the other parent decides to do the bare minimum, or in many cases nothing at all.

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As a single mom you are left to become the sole provider, the breadwinner, the comforter, the coach, the teacher, the referee, the tutor, the planner, the nurse, the chef, the maid, the hairstylist, playmate etc…

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You have to take on the role of both mom and dad, and at the end of the day you are supposed to be able to take care of yourself as well. Most women who are mother’s have a problem with this. There is simply so much to do, that it’s hard to find the time or energy to do anything for yourself, resulting in sadness, depression, and other ailments. These situations become especially true for single mother’s who receive little or no support.

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I can honestly say that on this Mother’s Day: while I am thankful, grateful, and blessed, I am burnt out. I’m tired, a little lonely, a little mad and a little sad. This day honoring mothers, for me is just another like any other day. I’m alone with my twin daughters and I’m struggling to play the roles of both mom and dad, the playmate, the nurse, the chef, the maid…

How DO You Feel About This Post? Are You A Single Mother? How Are You Feeling Today, And What Do You Do To Celebrate Mother’s Day?

Salute To MOMMIES Everywhere On Mother’s Day!
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Coronavirus Mask Infection Virus

Corona Virus. Pandemic Of The DECADE?

Quarantine; the New Norm.

Only 3 months into 2020 and what a year it has been. January left us shocked with the fatal helicopter crash that claimed Kobe Bryant’s death and the lives of 8 other’s.

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Now an unexpected virus has crept into our lives country by country, county by county, and city by city.

I just want to say, what a way to start the decade.

“Corona” is the virus that will make America or break it.

With number of confirmed cases steadily on the rise in almost every state, more and more schools, and businesses are closing their doors. The stock Market has crashed and no one knows when this invisible virus “plans to finish it’s business.”

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There are only 2 possible outcomes; America will either bounce back to be better than it was before, or it will fall to a place which we would have to take time recovering from.

It’s not just up to our leaders and the governors of our country and state, but it’s up to us as well. WE ALL PLAY A PART in the spread/containment of this virus, but only time will tell.

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Who knows how long the pandemic will last, but we do need to make the best of it. Spend this quarantine time with your family, and just appreciating life, Pray, talk to God, and ask him for blessings, and guidance over you life.

Gain clarity for yourself. This quarantine is a break that most of us needed.

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I’ll be the first in life to say this is true for me. This time has given me a new focus, and outlook on life. I was in absolute misery at my job, and not living up to my full potential.

After this pandemic is over they may not see me back!

I’m not saying quit your job, but use this time to focus on you. Ask yourself; if what you are doing is leading to the life and the things you want. If not; what can you do to start changing this.

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Get Your Journal & Start Brainstorming!

Peace & Love ~Marleana

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20 powerful motivational quotes

20 Powerful Motivational Inspirational Quotes

20 Powerful Motivational Inspirational quotes

  • 20 motivational inspirational quotes
  • 20 motivational inspirational quotes
  • 20 motivational inspirational quotes
  • 20 Motivational Inspirational quotes
  • 20 Motivational Inspirational Quotes
  • 20 motivational inspirational quotes
  • 20 motivational inspirational Quotes
  • 20 motivational inspirational quotes

If you’re Looking for motivation you’ve come to the right place to be inspired, and empowered. Whether you are looking for a quick confidence boost, motivational screen saver, or some fresh content for your social media feed. Scroll through this list of 20 Powerful motivational Inspirational Quotes, save them pin them, repost them and let me know which one is your favorite down below in the comments. (If you decide to repost on Instagram or social media don’t forget to tag me for credit @real.queens.killing.it Enjoy the feed, the will be more coming in future posts!

20 motivational inspirational quotes
  1. If you have a vision stick to it. Don’t let anyone’s opinions or views stop you from achieving your goals. Follow @real.queens.killing.it
20 motivational inspirational quotes

2. Everyone starts at the bottom. It takes a lot of hard work, faith, and vision to get to the top. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 Motivational Inspirational Quotes

3. Everyone is not going to love you or like what you do, this doesn’t matter, don’t let that stop you from doing what you need to do. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 motivational inspirational quotes

4. You are allowed to choose yourself over the people who hurt you. It’s not selfish. It’s self respect. It’s self love. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 motivational inspirational quotes

5. You are amazing. You are smart. You are wonderful. You are beautiful. You are kind. You are worthy. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 Motivational Inspirational quotes

6. Truly knowing your worth means being lonely, horny, bored, independent, and single if that’s what it takes to keep from settling for less. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 motivational inspirational Quotes

7. Life will improve as you improve, keep working on yourself. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

8. Close some doors, not because of pride, incapacity, or ignorance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

9. Those plans you have, start doing them. There will never be a perfect moment to begin. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

10. You only get one shot at life. So take the bow, take a deep breath, be patient, aim steady and take your best shot. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

11. You are worth finding, worth knowing, worth loving. You and all your one million layers. Always hold that close. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

12. You are the only one responsible for your success and your failures, your fate and destiny are in your own hands. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

13. Visualize your highest self, and start showing up as her. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

14. There are no limits to what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

15. The most dangerous person at the table is the one who truly knows his or her worth, and moves accordingly. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

16. Let go of comparing. Let go of competing. Let go of judgments. Let go of anger. Let go of regrets. Let go of worrying. Let go of blame. Let go of guilt. Let go of fear. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 motivational inspirational quotes

17. Dream, explore, enrich your mind. Take nothing for granted. Strive to live each moment like it’s your last. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

18. You are beautifully unique. No one else is exactly like you. Use that to your advantage. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 powerful motivational inspirational quotes

19. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality. Upgrade your conviction to match your destiny. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

20 powerful motivational inspirational quotes
20 powerful motivational inspirational quotes

20. Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty you can’t even imagine. There’s nothing easy about realizing you’re the only one that’s been holding you back. Follow @real.queens.killing.it

Enjoyed these 20 motivational inspirational quotes follow my Instagram @real.queens.killing.it for more motivation and inspiration. Don’t forget to let me know which quotes were your favorite in the comments!

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embracing change

EMBRACING CHANGE.

“Embrace Uncertainty. Some of the most beautiful chapters of our lives won’t have a title until much later.” –Bob Goff

Accepting or embracing change can be difficult, painful even. It’s the reason why we procrastinate and put off those important projects and ideas that have the potential to change our lives.

The truth is in some way, shape, or form, we are scared; scared of what change may bring, scared of the effort we may have to put in, scared to leave our comfort zone, afraid of the difficulties we may face.

Some of us are so scared of failure that we never even start down the road that could lead us to our greatest success.

Today I made a change. I left my average entry level position job as a cashier.

Although I have held this position for a year, I have grown comfortable in it, comfortable in the familiarity of it, comfortable in it’s daily repetitiveness, and the safety of my routine.

Staying would have been an easy thing to do, but taking the easy way out leaves no room for growth or change, which is a basic necessity of life. We need growth and change, or otherwise our dreams, and goals begin to die.

To be honest I’m more than scared about starting a new job, especially one I’ve never done. I’m not even sure I’m mentally prepared for it, but one thing I do know is that I have the chance to grow, and when life presents you with the opportunity you take it.

This post is a reminder to go after your goals and dreams no matter how terrifying and unreasonable they may seem. Of course there’s a 100 chances of not achieving success, but it’s a fact that you never will if you never try.

You only have two options; grow or die.

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DOMESTIC ABUSE: The Painful Truth About Domestic Abuse, and Violence. (2019)

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Disclaimer: This image is not meant to portray any persons accused of Domestic Abuse

“The true character of a man is not defined by what he does in front of a crowd, but instead by what he does when no one else is around.”

-Unknown.

The shocking truth is 1 in 4 women will experience some form of domestic abuse or domestic violence in their life time, with most domestic occurrences happening to women between the ages of 18-34.

Although there are an estimated 12 million cases of domestic abuse a year, less than half are actually reported to authorities.

It’s extremely important that women (or men) who may be subject to this kind of abuse alert someone about their situation, even if it’s a family member, friend, police or agency, someone should know.

You should never feel alone, trapped or helpless when facing domestic abuse, most partners who are abusive tend to escalate, or continue abuse because they feel that their victim is estranged from friends and family

If you or someone you know may be suffering from abuse make a police report, or contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline. at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

A Man Who is Not A Man; A Short Verse

I know a man who is not a man, but a liar who never keeps his word.

Whose mouth proclaims his love, and threatens my life like a two edged sword.

I know a man who is not a man, who’d rather make excuses than to try.

I know a man who is not a man who believes all his twisted lies.

I know a man who is not a man who’d take my last without batting an eye,

He believes raising hands to me can be justified.

I know a man who is not a man who has no self control, no morals or, no goals.

Someone who believes he’s entitled because he exists,

he believes he can solve his problems by how well he can use his fists.

The problem with this man is that he is not a man at all.

 So I know a man who is not a man, he’s actually is just a boy.

I wrote this verse a little over a month ago, BEFORE deciding that maybe posting a verse revealing the true nature of my children’s father would be a little bit harsh. You are reading this because he changed my mind.

In the past week alone he has shown up outside my door and at our neighborhood park shouting and threatening to shoot me and kill me in front of our children for not answering the phone when he called.

I do not understand how a man can behave this way toward a woman that has mothered his children.

Are you a survivor or know someone who is a survivor of domestic abuse. What are your thoughts on the issue? What did you do, what actions are you taking to protect yourself?

Disclaimer: the photo above is not meant to portray an individual/s accused of or associated with Domestic abuse or violence.

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THE BOSS MILLENNIAL

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

-Oscar Wilde

Welcome to The Boss Millennial! My name is Marleana, and I will be your host/conductor for this ride. I’m glad you’re here because this journey isn’t meant to be taken alone, so come on in, get settled, we’re going to become the best of friends. It’s here on this blog, on this web page, where we are going to discuss this thing called life, the good, the bad, the virtuous and the evil, and the ugly along with the pretty.

It’s 2019, the world is a sweet but bitter place. If you’re not ready to laugh, cry, pray, grow, inspire or be inspired then this blog is not for you, and it’s time for you to go. We will be breaking all kinds of chains and boundaries concerning health, wealth, family, and relationships both physical, spiritual, and mental.

So thank you for being here and lets get ready to begin!

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